I love Rodger Berman. I think all of the "gay" rumors surrounding him are absurd and ridiculous.
Yes, he very well may be Mr. Rachel Zoe, but he doesn't seem to mind according to this article that he wrote for Bazaar. Not to mention, she is providing a pretty fabulous life for the two of them.
I think it's awesome that he let's her be who she is, and that he appreciates fashion as an art. Sure, he might go a bit overboard with the scarves, but don't we all have some sort of trademark?
I am sure that he is thrilled to be having a bit more testosterone in his Missoni filled home in a few months!