A Non-Desperate Housewife

New obsession

2011-05-31T08:41:00.000-07:00

This is an amazing blog---It's called The Glow, and it's by a photographer named Kelly Stuart.

The photos are amazing, the kiddos are adorable, and the women look like people I would love to hang out with.

One of my favorites....

2011-05-30T16:46:00.000-07:00

I have a few favorite rooms in our home. My daughter's nursery is one of them. This room used to to be her brother's nursery. We kept everything the same--furniture (yes, he had a hot pink dresser), wallpaper, etc. The only things we changed was adding a pink bumper to the existing bedding that my mom SLAVED over, and a few more girly touches.

I'm already designing her "big girl room" in my head--that won't happen for another couple of years, which is fine, because I really do love this sweet place.

This crib is the "Mercedes" of the room. I went back and forth on wanting something more modern, like the Oeuf, but decided on this one from Bratt Decor. This picture doesn't so it justice--it's really beautiful, and way over priced. Sort of like my handbags.

The rocker is Amy Coe for Babies R' Us. My husband and I drove ourselves MAD to find a rocker that wasn't completely heinous, and didn't cost thousands of dollars since we paid a pretty penny for the crib. I wasn't too sure about this one in the store, but once we got it home it worked great. The chandelier is something I had in my apartment in L.A.

I wish I could remember the site that we got this wallpaper from....it was super cheap. It's an "infant toile" that has lambs, bunnies, and angels on it. The doorknob is from Anthropologie.

The fabric flowers were all handmade by my mom. She made several dozen for the centerpieces at my baby shower, and I am obsessed with them. The woman has skills, and patience! The cute, "this little piggy went to Prada" book was given to Frankie by my sweet friend Beth.

This little armoire holds little Frankie's shoe collection. I LOVE this piece. We got it on Craigslist for $40 dollars.

This dresser was a FIND, let me tell you. We found it as is at a yard sale for $17.

Little birds found at a thrift store. The art work is something we put together..The little lion card was part of a set found at a local printing press, and we used several of them that we framed over decorative paper. The little pink card to the right reads, "Metal Head"...of course, I had to have that.

Overall, this room is much "sweeter" than I normally design things, but I am glad we went this route. I'll be sad when it changes.

On the hunt....

2011-05-19T13:06:00.000-07:00

First of all, Drew looks inCREDible. Her side kick is pretty foxy as well. However, what I am most focused on in this picture are those flipping earrings. I have a wedding to go to this summer, and these would be perfect with the dress I am wearing.

Let the hunting begin......

What's going on.....

2011-05-17T10:55:00.000-07:00

Spring is seriously kicking my rear. I'm not talking about allergies or anything of the sort...I'm talking projects/tasks/commitments galore. I have really been scaling back on blog reading, and obviously blog posting, and to be honest, it's been nice. I've actually been reading-BOOKS for the first time in forever.

Aside from having the exterior of our house painted, having a new kitchen back splash put in, new windows on the house, freelance jobs, teething, an unbelievably sad death in the family, and, well, life's normal day to day tasks, here's what else has been going on:

Lovely peonies from our front yard.......

A special date--mom and dad took our boy to first Friday's .

These yummy cupcakes--cayenne spiced chocolate that we served with Ethiopian Coffee Ice cream

This chicks margarita's have been consumed around these parts as of late.

As has this woman's fish tacos (the salted cabbage is SOOO good with them).

More peonies.

Also, I have NO idea why my blog's format looks so horrible----I don't have the patience to mess with it-my apologies!!!

Yum Yum gimmie some....

2011-05-04T15:23:00.000-07:00

I may not be blogging, but I sure am cooking.

Made these cupcakes last night for a birthday get together, and they were insane. I REALLY want to make these next, but there are 43947209 steps, and one of them requires a kitchen torch. Gee whiz, Martha, chill OUT.

If you like cauliflower, you HAVE to try my girl Ina's garlic roasted cauliflower. I was sad when I ate my last bite.

I also made Bethenney's Sun dried tomato stuffed chicken breasts, and they did not disappoint.

On a side note, I think I am having issues with gluten. I was talking to a friend who said that a trauma to the body can bring it on. My issues began occurring after c-section number 2 (pardon the pun). I am going to see a holistic doctor who will hopefully be able to shed some light on the situation.....this is HORRENDOUS timing, as my husband and I just found a pizza crust recipe that we're in love with.

Any of you have issues with Mr. Gluten?

WoW!!

2011-05-04T07:55:00.001-07:00

I'm obsessed.

Head to toe----ah-mazing!

8 is great.

2011-04-25T08:18:00.000-07:00

My sweet little lady.

Eight months. EIGHT MONTHS!! We've been having so much fun-enjoying some nicer weather (when we have it), rolling over, trying to get up on all fours, and.....and....A NEW TOOTH!!! You got your first little chomper the day after you turned 8 months, and let me tell you, it's been a tough one. You have been in a lot of pain, feverish and uncomfortable. For 2 days all you wanted was to be held, and sleep on your dad or I. You woke this morning so smiley and happy--finally back to normal and a bit of relief for you.

It's so hard to believe that in just a few months you will be one year old! I try not to go there--I know that will be a tough one for me, so for now, I am just going to focus on how amazing 8 months is...sleepless nights and all. I love, love, love you my sweet little red head.

What it all means.....

2011-04-22T07:52:00.000-07:00

Luke 24:46-47 and Jesus said to them, “Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, and that repentance and forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in his name to all nations, beginning from Jerusalem.

Hope you all have a wonderful Easter!

Two thumbs up.

2011-04-21T09:32:00.000-07:00

How adorable is this couple? I am ALL over Mr. Z's new 'long' hair.

Not a huge Beyonce' fan (I leave that to my husband), but I am pretty sure these two would make fabulous dinner guests.

Where do I even begin?

2011-04-20T08:00:00.000-07:00

This is frightening. Beyond, really. I don't understand this woman at all. She is so pretty, but I think she's having a major identity crisis. Like, I think ol' girl tries to channel Sharon Stone every time she walks out of the house.

Not only does she dress WAY too old for her age, but she puts all of the wrong things together times 100. I know, I know, if you can't say something nice, blah, blah, blah....but she asked for it!!

I have to stop looking at this, it's putting me in a bad mood.

HEY! Look at me!!

2011-04-19T13:42:00.000-07:00

Some of my babies.

More babies.

Boots ready to go into hibernation for the spring.

I'm conflicted about these outfit posts on my blog. I used to do them more often, but sometimes it just feels so narcissistic. It's no secret that I am clothing (and purses, and jewelry, and shoes) obsessed, and I love putting outfits together. Since becoming a mom, I don't get the chance to dress completely the way that I'd like on a day to day basis, but I try to keep it fun and true to who I am. Here are some photos of my "dressing room" (almost completed), and a recent get-up.

Outfit 4-1-1:

Shirt: Standard Style (KC boutique)

Jeans: Gap from literally 10 years ago.

Blazer: Vintage De La Renta

Bag: Boutique in L.A.

Boots hidden by ancient jeans: Vintage

Jewelry: Vintage and J.Crew

A slacker.

2011-04-15T09:00:00.000-07:00

I have been b-u-s-y. Insanely busy as a matter of fact. As a result, my poor 'lil blog has suffered.

I have managed to keep up with Idol a bit, and this season is blowing my mind. I am beyond obsessed with Mr. James Durbin. BEYOND! He is so talented, sticks to his guns, and is an incredible performer. This week when he said, "give metal a chance", I almost peed myself. And the week he sang Iron Maiden, well, I did pee myself.

He totally deserves to win...or Jacob....or Casey. As long as it isn't Stefano.....good grief.

Have you all been watching?

What's cookin.....

2011-03-30T13:25:00.000-07:00

I've been a bad blogger. Honestly, the tragedy in Japan makes me feel guilty about discussing purses, lipstick and the rest of it all. I know "life goes on", but situations like this really help you put things in perspective. Don't get me wrong, I still love all things beautiful and pretty and horribly expensive....I just felt it was good to take some time off. I have, however, kept things going in the kitchen. Here's what has kept me motivated to get on my treadmill:

Ms. Big boobs Pea Pesto Crostini. Don't just put this on crostini-a.k.a. bread that you could lose a tooth on---we have had it on salmon and tilapia. Yum. I also may have eaten it by the spoon full.

Chocolate Mint Pixies. Stupid good. And ridiculously easy to make. Not a fan of mint? Leave it out. I should be a life coach.

A very tasty THIN crust pizza dough recipe. My husband made this the other night and added fresh cracked pepper in the dough. Insane.

This BLEW my mind. I subbed spicy chicken sausage, and added more crushed red pepper.

Smitten Kitchen Toasted Coconut shortbreads. Just try to stop at two. Try.

NIfty Thrifty

2011-03-23T07:12:00.000-07:00

I have been coveting a blouse by Equipment for quite some time. They can go casual or dressy, and the cut is super flattering. What's not so flattering is the almost $200 price tag. I just can't justify it--even with the versatility of the blouse. So, I began my hunt, and found these two gems at some local thrift stores. I am obsessed with them...just goes to show, when there's a will, there's a way.

7

2011-03-22T13:59:00.000-07:00

Really, red?? 7 months? Why are you doing this to me? It's all happening way too fast.

I am trying not to be sad about how big you're getting, so let's focus on the positive:

You are STILL a dream baby....you sleep like a champion, and are so, so happy. Thank you, GOD!

Your hair is getting longer, and brighter. Get ready pigtails, here we come.

You are rolling over! Right on schedule!

I am able to get sweet potatoes in your mouth for 30 seconds before they fall right out.

You love to go for walks, which works out great with your tree loving brother.

I love you so so so very much. Happy 7 months my fair skinned little lady.

Adding to my list....

2011-03-20T20:30:00.000-07:00

Jeana Sohn has an amazing blog. Her photos, friends, style, and recipes are always inspiring.

She recently started a new project called the closet visit, which I am beyond obsessed with.

Her most recent closet visit was Shiva Rose--I adore her style, and have for quite some time. She is a lover of all things vintage, and has an amazing sense of style. I was thrilled to find out through Jeana's blog, that Shiva started a blog of her own, The Local Rose.

It was on her blog that I found out vintage clothing isn't all that we have in common. Shiva is very big on local farming, organic eating, and also sings the praises of raw milk.

Her blog looks like it is just starting out, and I am so excited to stalk her daily!

One of these kids is doin' his own thing.....

2011-03-14T13:33:00.000-07:00

You , my boy, continue to amaze me. We went to the zoo last Friday, and as soon as I took you out of your stroller, you were on a serious mission. I thought hat you were headed straight for the polar bears (where 50 some others were gathering). I couldn't have been more wrong. You went straight for this little shelter with picnic benches tucked inside. At first I though maybe you wanted to sit and have your snacks. You didn't. You just kept walking in and out of this covered area--as soon as you would get under it you would look up. And as soon as you got out of it you would look up You did this over and over and over for about 15 minutes or so...it gave me time to get your sister situated, and I wasn't thinking much of it....but then I realized what you were doing...you were looking at how the inside of the shelter was shaded, and the outside of the shelter was sunny. You were fascinated by it!! After my realization, I went over to explain to you how the sun gave the light and the shade gave the ..well, shade. You looked up at me and , then looked at the sun, and then the shade, smiled, and then were ready to move on.

It's these little moments that I want to remember forever.

Get your Shop Bop on!

2011-03-09T10:52:00.000-08:00

Who doesn't love shop bop? And who doesn't love Mollie's blog???

Enter for your chance to win $100 gift card!!

These are a few of my favorite things.

2011-03-06T07:07:00.000-08:00

This Chanel eye cream really does deliver. I put it on right when I wake up, and the puffiness diminishes. It isn't the most hydrating, so I usually have to layer a richer cream on top, but for something that helps me not to look like Rocky Balboa, I'm okay with layering.

The moments where I get to wear a heel are few and far between. I just bought these moccasins, and I love them. I think they are a great transitional shoe before busting out the sandals.

As I have mentioned many times before, I am a total tea junkie. One of my absolute favorites is Mate' tea. I discovered Republic of Tea's Mate Latte (which tastes EXACTLY like Teavana's Java Mate' for WAY cheaper, btw). I love the taste of coffee, but it rips my stomach apart. This tea gives me the taste without the tummy issues or the jitters. I usually get a craving for something sweet late afternoon, so I brew this tea add 1 packet of stevia, let it chill in the fridge, and drink it over ice with some vanilla almond milk. YUM.

NARS multiple stick in Luxor. I think I own every single multiple this man has ever created, and the latest one, Luxor does not disappoint. It is an iridescent pink that looks amazing as a highlighter, as well as under the eyes if you're fair. It really "perks" up my face and gives me a faux glow--great for those mornings where I don't have a ton of time to get ready, but don't want to scare the public.

I have been out of control lately hunting for vintage kid's clothing. I am so excited for Frankie to wear little romper's and dresses this summer.

Another tea obsession. My in-laws just got back from San Fransisco where they got me this amazing Pearl Jasmine tea from Ten Ren. It is seriously the best Jasmine tea I have ever had. Very flavorful and fragrant without being perfume-y.

Today

2011-03-04T06:40:00.000-08:00

Four years. Four amazing years. So much has happened. We went from a long distance relationship, to moved, married, and two incredible kids in four years. Insane. God sure knew what He was doing.

I know it's beyond cliche' to say that you have taught me so much, but it's the truth. I am so proud of who you are, so proud of how you live your life on a daily basis, so proud that you're my husband.

I love you more than words can say.

Perfection.

2011-03-02T11:22:00.000-08:00

It's no secret that I have an intense crush on Ms. Anna (See posts here, and here).

She is super inspiring, takes amazing risks, and dresses to impress. When I stumbled upon this picture on her blog, I drooled. She can do no wrong.

It's all in a name.

2011-03-01T06:52:00.000-08:00

I guess if you're married to a dude named Mark, you'll look amazing.

Aside from Jessica, Cate, and Anne's first dress (the white w/ all the jewels), and her last gold fringe-y number (insane), these 2 are my FAVES!

A few words...

2011-02-28T13:23:00.001-08:00

Haven't even watched the Oscars yet--but I LIVE for Jessica Biel's dress. Don't ask me why this chick is even AT the Oscars...has she done ANYTHING sice 7th heaven (besides Justin Timberlake)? Regardless, her dress is superb.

I am also bitter as all get out because I don't own Ms. Zoe's dress. Out. Of. Control.

Super giant heart.

2011-02-24T10:03:00.000-08:00

I LOVE me some Ally Hilfiger (proof here), and I LOVE this get up she has on.

Don't tempt me to re-create it, and wear it to story time.

What the??!!

2011-02-23T14:09:00.000-08:00

Talbot's has never been my cup o' tea, however, I did a double take the other day while running after my little guy in the mall. I saw the "tear drop" necklace (last image) on a mannequin, and stopped dead in my tracks. I even caught myself saying out loud, "Talbot's??".

While I don't think I will be paying the 100 plus dollars on these pieces, you can bet that I'll be stalking their sales.

Simply the best.

2011-02-21T20:57:00.000-08:00

Six months. How did this happen?!

Last night, after you went to bed, I had a bit of a crying session. I want to freeze time. As much as I have so much excitement to see who you are, who you will become, you are my baby!! The last 6 months have been incredible. You are an amazing little girl--so patient, so sweet, so cuddly.

I love every single thing about you--your stunning red hair, your tiny little feet, the way you eat my chin, and every stinking delicious roll on your body!

Happy half birthday sweet girl. I love, love, love you.

Maybe, maybe not....

2011-02-19T09:01:00.000-08:00

I have a gigantic place in my heart for all things Kelly Wearstler...I'm just not too sure about her new ready to wear collection. While some pieces stand out more than others, the pictures above remind me a bit of Vera Wang for Kohls. I would love to see the collection in person....anything to get to Bergdorf's.

Fashiongasm

2011-02-19T07:19:00.000-08:00

These pictures make me weak in the knees. Super inspiring....makes me want to go and play in my closet for hours.

I recently had the ever repetitious conversation with my friend Jessie, about how challenging it is living where we do in regards to fashion. We were talking about how we both LOVE fashion, and in bigger cities, you can literally walk out your front door wearing whatever you want, and nobody bats an eye. Here, it's different. While there are many authentic creative people in Kansas City, sometimes walking out your front door in whatever you want to wear, produces unwanted attention, and sometimes, odd looks. I know it can be way worse in other places, so I am grateful that there is some open mindedness here, I just wish that I could dress with abandonment!

Thank God for Vacations.

It's such a perfect day, I'm glad I spent it with you.

2011-02-17T13:30:00.001-08:00

These aren't just the words to my favorite Lou Reed song, but the words to describe today.

We are having amazing weather today, so the little man and I took advantage and went on a date. Grandma stayed at home with his little sister, so it was just the 2 of us. Just like old times.

I'm not much of a Tiffany's kind of gal, but he insisted on buying me something.

Up close and personal.

This shot was taken before he flipped out when I told him mommy had to "go pee pee on the potty", and that we'll come back to the fountain.

He found his own little spot at the coffee joint.

Snacks make everyone happy.

I heart him big time.

Nature lover.

His happy dance.

It's growing on me.

2011-02-15T14:22:00.000-08:00

These two love bugs are responsible for my husband and I crossing over into Hallmark Holiday territory.

These valentine's were like cupid's arrow through the heart....

That arrow resulted in making cookies.....

and pretty flowers.....

an INSANE dessert made by my husband (smitten kitchen's blood orange cake accompanied by Goat Cheese and Honey Ice cream....RIDICULOUS!!)

We also busted open a special bottle of wine that was aging in our cellar (a.k.a....sitting in our basement).

For dinner we made Donna Hay's Pasta with walnuts and blue cheese, and the mister made steaks.

Cupid's arrow is kind of amazing.

Hooray for Donna Hay.

2011-02-10T07:26:00.000-08:00

I am usually blogging about recipe's from Smitten Kitchen, or my home girl, The Barefoot Contessa. I also have a mad love affair with Donna Hay's recipes. Her cook books are gorgeous, and her recipes are always outstanding. She's been dubbed the Australian Martha Stewart, minus the jail time of course.

We had friends over for dinner last night. One of our guests is vegetarian and gluten free. My mom is gluten free, so I'm used to that kind of cooking, however my mom doesn't like sweets, so I wasn't too savvy on gluten free desserts.

Enter Donna Hay's chocolate coconut tarts. The bomb. I flipping loved these. Out of control. Super easy-5 ingredients. The original recipe calls for dessicated coconut, which I used, but the link I provided is a recipe that just subbed finely ground toasted coconut, which works as well. The ganache filling is perfect. The recipe calls for them to be put in the freezer to set, but they should sit out for a bit before serving, otherwise you'll be in hockey puck territory.

I served these with Chai Tea ice cream from this genius. He's a local "chocolate master" who began making his own ice cream about a year or so ago. When his ice cream shop first opened, I wasn't all that impressed, but when I took my friend there who was visiting, I fell in LOVE! He really perfected his flavors, and textures big time. Last week, we made our favorite sea salt brownies (that I've blogged about a bazillion times), and served them with his French Lavender Ice Cream. Ridiculous.

Sorry about the ice cream tangent......the tarts don't even need ice cream.

But I do. Always.

Come and knock on my door...part 2

2011-02-07T18:36:00.000-08:00

This is our family room. It is probably the most used room in the house besides the kitchen.
Our fireplace was that nasty orange-y brick, and we painted it white.....This room came together pretty quickly, and I'm super happy with the way it turned out.....

This secretary was purchased at an antique store...we were originally going to paint it glossy grey, but decided to leave it as is...it ties in the wood ceiling beams in nicely, I think.
We tacked on the hot pink oil cloth to give it some pizazz.

The elephant and birds were found in thrift stores. The uppers jar is Jonathan Adler, given to me by my sweet friend Amber. The stick was something my son found while we were on a walk, and I just left it there!
Wallpaper by Graham and Brown. The branch was in our back yard, and we painted it white.
The giant television is obnoxious.

Couch and chair is Z Gallerie. Rug is from Target.

Found the chair in a neighbor's garbage...painted it hot pink. I love that it is missing an arm. Pillow from Sa-Sea on Etsy. Lamp is Pier One.

This deer head was made by a Chicago Artist. Found on Etsy.

Our coffee table is one of my faves. Got it on Craigslist...Painted it glossy black. There are 3 pieces of marble on the top. Weighs a TON.

The trunk came from an Estate Sale when I was living in LA...Thrift store animals. Lamp from Urban Outfiters.

Z Gallerie table. The "punk" vase was a gift from my brothers about 10 years ago. I broke it once and about had a FIT. Thank God for hot glue.

Vintage pendant light from an Estate Sale.

Hopefully those floors will get done sooooon. They're going to be super dark. Cannot wait. I don't care if I have to sweep them 10 times a day. I'll make my toddler do it.

Invite your friends.

2011-02-04T07:33:00.000-08:00

I have always wanted to make a homemade pot pie, but was a bit intimidated.

Enter my home girl, Ina Garten's recipe.

The recipe got rave reviews. I love reading the reviews to see what others thought/substituted, and if they give any pointers. Many of the reviews laughed at others saying they "cheated" and used store bought pastry, and that the one given in the recipe was easy to follow, and delicious.

Dough/crust. etc. is always what intimidates me, but who wants to be laughed at? Plus, I love a good challenge.

I followed the recipe exactly, with the exception of the pearl onions--these things just creep me out. Back in my bartending days, if someone ordered a martini and requested these little devils, my gag reflex would trigger instantly. Nasty. Anyhoo----I didn't have those adorable individual serving bowls (on the wish list now), so I made one giant pie using a 9x13 dish. Giant is an understatement. We have enough pot pie in the freezer for the rest of the winter. Okay, not really, but this thing made serious leftovers--which is great, because it was superb. And that crust? Insanity.

Try it, you'll like it.

Chompers.

2011-02-03T09:29:00.000-08:00

She's gettin' 'em.

I feel so bad for her. Teething is vile. And of COURSE the Hyland's teething tablets were recalled right when she started this time in her life.

So, I give her my chin. It makes her happy. I first dip my face in bourbon and then let her go to town. Kidding, kidding.

But I might try that this afternoon.

Pass the Xanax.

2011-02-01T19:30:00.000-08:00

Do you remember the scene in When Harry Met Sally where she is freaking out because she was going to be forty....someday?

I had one of those moments.

This wasn't about turning forty, however. That, I can handle (I say that now...).

This was about my son going to school. While we are a ways off on that happening, I know that it will be here...someday.

I am so used to having him with me all of the time. While there are days where I would like to send him to boarding school, I seriously cannot imagine him being gone all day.

What if someone is mean to him? What if he's mean to someone else? What if he's scared? What if his teacher sucks? What if he loves it so much, that when I go to pick him up he doesn't want to come home?

Maybe I'll apply to be a janitor at his school.

Come and knock on my door....

2011-01-31T20:24:00.000-08:00

Our home has been quite a work in progress. We went from 0-60 in quite a short time. My husband bought the house before we were married, and spent the first year and a half tearing things down, and ripping things up. After our wedding, we "vowed" not to do a single thing to the house. When I say it was a blank canvas, well, that is a understatement. It was nice not to get swallowed up in house projects for a year, and it was fun compiling tons and tons of tear sheets, and bookmarked websites/blogs of what we liked. By the end of that year I was chomping at the bit to get started, and of COURSE we got pregnant, but that didn't stop us. We have done so much in the past 2 years, and have a few major projects that we would like to tackle in the next year or so (refinish floors, demolish 2 bathrooms, paint the exterior--you know, easy peasy). What I love the most about our house, is that we truly have made it our home. It is a good representation of who we are, and pretty much everything we have acquired tells a story.

The light was $10 from Urban Outfitters. The photos were made my my sweet husband.

This is our entry way...the table was bought at a thrift store for 20 bucks. I had it in my loft when I first moved here-it's actually a vanity for a little girl. The frame, owl, and candelabra are all vintage. Candle is Voluspa. The dish that the candle is on is from the rose bowl flea market in Pasadena. Iron squirrel from Anthropologie.

The floor in our enrty way is something that I will never change. I love it. I also love our black doors that my dear husband painted.

Mirrors were a wedding present from my husband's uncle. Crate and Barrel.

Our living room/dining room. This room is very challenging as it is one long room. We tried to divide it up as best as we could without making it feel "choppy". This is the living area. Everything pictured is vintage/antique.

I found these birds in a local thrift store, and I immediately peed my pants.

Gigantic mirror from Z Gallerie... The white frame hidden behind the chair should not be there. Another project my husband is working on.....

My husband and I found a piece of furniture on Craigslist for the nursery. When we went to pick it up, the owners of the home told us they were moving out of state. I asked if they were selling else because their decor was ah-mazing. He said he had an antique 6 ft tall birdcage for sale. In that moment I wasn't interested, but as soon as I got home, I couldn't stop obsessing about it. We went back to get it the next day. Paid $35 for it....it was in pretty rough shape, but we had a painter power wash it, and paint it gold. I am going to put a huge plant in it.

This antique buffet also came from Craigslist (I have a problem). $60 bucks...painted it glossy black, and got some new knobs. We painted the inside neon yellow. It's pretty rad.

Vintgae glassware, and a lamp from an estate sale.

More to come.......

Some things never change.

2011-01-31T12:52:00.000-08:00

I have been M.I.A.

My bff from Chicago, Emily came to visit, THANK GOD!!

We haven't seen each other in over a year, and I was going MAD! To say Emily is my best friend doesn't even sound right. She's my sister. I have been blessed with several friends that feel like family, but Emily is the original gangsta.

We have been through SO much in the past 14 years, that if Mr. Woody Allen was smart, he would contact us for a screen play.

Her visit here was business as usual: eating, drinking, talking non stop, and of course, shopping. Lots o' shopping. Oh, and remember that hard liquor hiatus that I was on for about 7 years? It broke. If there was anyone that could do it, it would be Em.

While the visit was short lived, we really packed it in, and I am forever looking forward to seeing her again.

The lady in red...

2011-01-22T20:28:00.001-08:00

My little red head.

My little 5 month red head.

Tonight as I snuck in your room to watch you sleep, I wanted nothing more than to crawl into your crib and snuggle.

I can't get enough of you. I still have moments where I can't believe that your mine. What a blessing you are--everything about you has been such a great surprise-from finding out you were in my belly, to seeing your gorgeous red hair.

These past 5 months have been incredible.

Thank you for completing our family sweet girl.

I love you.

A brief synopsis....

2011-01-16T20:39:00.000-08:00

This weekend was super busy. I have a very full belly, and need to be asleep ASAP, so I will keep this brief.

I decided that for this recap, I am only going to focus on the positive. I am not going to do a Joan Rivers and dog anyone out.....except for you, Nicole Kidman. I feel I have the right to do this given the shout out I just gave you a couple of posts below:

Nicole, Nicole, Nicole, you are a gorgeous specimen....you are also a bean pole, but that dress needed some spankage, and sadly, not the fun kind. You, my dear, needed full on spanks. When you were talking to everyone's favorite little person (Ryan Seacrest), I about lost my breath, and not in a good way.....I will save you the embarrassment of posting a photo.....since a non desperate housewife is THE blog everyone goes to.

My. FAVORITE. This woman can do NO wrong. She kills it every single time.

Normally I cannot stand what she wears, but I thought she looked beautiful...in a bride of Frankenstein sort of way.

Flawless. 46??? Amazing. I wish her bangs were a smidgen shorter, but really, who cares?

I go back and forth with this. The color? Off the charts. The shoes? BEYOND. I just felt it had premature poof-a-lation. In other words, if the bodice was slimmer, and the waist longer, I would be drooling.

This is hands down, my second favorite. The photo doesn't do it justice. And her earrings made me weak in the knees.

I am sure this is the dress that will cause the most controversy, but I think it's supberb.

I'm usually not one to like something so, well, obviously sexy, but she is perfection. The shoes on the other hand.......

So simple, but the color and the fit are perfect on her.

Beyond. Knocked my socks off.

This dress is to die for.....but Lord, she needs a stylist. This dress could go very Dynasty, and with her hair like that, she is well on her way to Linda Evans territory. Even a simple slick backed pony would have been soooo much better.

Looking forward to hearing all your opinions!

The morning after....

2011-01-15T19:56:00.000-08:00

After a fun night out with some girlfriends, I woke up to this pile on my vanity. It made me laugh--it looked like the aftermath of a night I might of had in my 20's.

I sure didn't feel like I was in my 20's when I woke up.....gone are the days of having a few cocktails, and not even breaking a sweat the next day. Actually, I don't even touch hard liquor. Haven't in over 7 years. I L-O-V-E me a gin and tonic. I actually earned the nickname "gin-Gina" by some dear friends many moons ago. The problem isn't my love of gin, it's the fact that gin doesn't love me back. And tequila? No, no, no, no, no, no. I miss Margarita's like nobody's business, but that stuff is off limits. Gives me the shakes when the sun comes up.

I am a wine devotee'. Almost always red, but in the summer, I'll switch to white.

I pretty much have a 2 glass limit, and that is even pushing it for me. It's not that I get all loopy or sloppy, but the next day, I just can't muster up any energy.

And WHY on EARTH is it, that children just know these things??? It's as if my little lambs send each other signals at night, and make a pact to wake up early the mornings after mommy goes out. Happens every time.

Those are the days I am most thankful for concealer and highlighter.

A Tall drink of water.

2011-01-14T14:36:00.000-08:00

This just arrived in my mailbox this afternoon, and I gasped when I saw it.

Nicole has never looked better--I don't care if her forehead is frozen in time, she looks fierce.

That dress.

Those shoes!

And her hair!! Right now, my daughter's hair is the exact same color...so naturally she should be on next month's cover.

Are any of you planning on seeing Rabbit Hole? My husband and I watched a preview in the theatre, and I completely lost it. Sobbed from a 60 second preview. I don't think I could sit through the whole thing.

But I could stand to have that get up on the cover.

Taking one for the team...

2011-01-13T08:47:00.000-08:00

I love Rodger Berman. I think all of the "gay" rumors surrounding him are absurd and ridiculous.

Yes, he very well may be Mr. Rachel Zoe, but he doesn't seem to mind according to this article that he wrote for Bazaar. Not to mention, she is providing a pretty fabulous life for the two of them.

I think it's awesome that he let's her be who she is, and that he appreciates fashion as an art. Sure, he might go a bit overboard with the scarves, but don't we all have some sort of trademark?

I am sure that he is thrilled to be having a bit more testosterone in his Missoni filled home in a few months!

May I please see your I.D.?

2011-01-11T21:12:00.000-08:00

I'm sorry-yes, miss Elle Fanning is adorable as adorable can get.

But a style spotlight?? Gimmie a break, Nell Carter-she's 13 years old!!!

I'm just waiting for the next issue of Vogue or Bazaar to show up with her and Suri Cruise on the cover.

So dumb.

California Dreamin'.

2011-01-11T09:31:00.000-08:00

I just had one of those moments.

As my husband and son played out in the snow, I watched from our kitchen window with a giant smile on my face. The 2 dudes were having the best time--snow forts, snow balls, the whole 9 yards. I had a cup of hot chai waiting for the mister when he came inside.

The best part of this whole moment wasn't the father/son bonding, nor was it the chai.

The best part was that I was inside the house, and not in that crap snow.

Snow is rubbish.

Winter is rubbish.

I know...I am from the Midwest! I am a Chicago girl!

Living in California for 4 years ruined me. I am pining for that state right now! As I type, the people in California are HIKING! They are sitting outside at coffee shops!! They are shopping OUTDOORS!! They are wearing open toes shoes!!

I have been reading the latest Joyce Meyer book on positive thinking, and as far as winter is concerned, this book is doing me NO good.

So, to make matters worse, I revisited some photos of our trip to Cali last April.

Bad idea.

Are any of you crazy enough to admit you love winter?? And I'm NOT talking about 1 or 2 days of snow...I mean December through mid March.

If so, WHY??!!

Somebody needs a sandwich.....

2011-01-08T19:46:00.000-08:00

While perusing Shopbop for a new dress, I came across this photo:

It isn't the dress that caught my eye, but this woman's LEGS. Good grief. While, I love me a skinny model, this girl is on a whole other level. And if the camera really does add 10 lbs, I can only imagine what the real her looks like. I don't even know how one would walk with legs that skinny.

On a much more important note, I am LUSTING over this Parker dress:

I heart everything about this little number from the color, to the length, and the off the charts sleeve. Those shoes are begging for me to open my wallet and whip out the plastic.

While I normally buy vintage, and alter, alter, alter to achieve my "vision", sometimes it's lovely to just buy "off the rack".

Martin Luther King day calls for a new ensemble, don't you think?

Rewind......

2011-01-07T20:28:00.000-08:00

Ms.Olsen's Prada backpack is quite a blast from the past. Ironically, just yesterday, I was going through some of my purses that I have "archived" (ha!) and I ran across my trusty Prada and thought to myself that it's just a matter of time before some celeb brings them back. I don't mind the look of them really, and with 2 kiddos it sure would be handy, but I'm not quite sure that I'm ready to bust mine out again.

What I AM sure of however, is that I will never be ready for those shoes she has on. I HATE MULES! ALL OF 'EM! I don't care if the name Manolo, Choo, Or Louboutin is stamped on the inside of them, I loathe this style of shoe!

So, while I adore MK and A, in the words of the fashion police, "make it stop!".

Joan Rivers is going to have a field day....

2011-01-07T06:59:00.000-08:00

How on EARTH, Ms. Drew, do you go from this, to this......

To THIS???!!!

Sweet Lord in the heavens, this is a monstrosity of a dress. My 2 year old son could have sewn a better sack.

See you on the back pages of US weekly.

Yum Yum gimme some.

2011-01-05T17:09:00.000-08:00

Making this as I type (yes, I am that talented), and my kitchen smells off the charts.

Smitten Kitchen never fails.

I have made soooo many of her recipes, and have never been disappointed.

She is my go-to when I make our weekly meal plan. We have several staple dishes that we rotate throughout the weeks, but when it comes to something new, it's usually from Smitten's website.

I LOVE learning of new recipes from the blog world..Natalie, and Shannan have posted some really great ones.

Let me know if there's something you love that I must try!

I don't want to miss a thing.

2011-01-04T17:09:00.000-08:00

For as long as I can remember, I have been beyond smitten with Mr. Steven Tyler.

Sure, Aerosmith gets it wrong here and there, but people, they have been jamming since the 70's (and yes, I said jamming).

I almost levitated when I heard them perform "Dream On" live for the first time. To this day, they still hold the title for the best show I've seen (3 times)...it doesn't hurt that I was 6th row center.

You can imagine the panic/excitement/tears that I had when I found out that for one of the shows, I had backstage passes. It was un-flipping-real to meet that man in person. He is super sweet, animated, sincere, and yes, TINY. And that FACE!!

I will forever cherish the Polaroid I have with him, as well as the kiss he planted on me. No lie. Trust me, it wasn't one of THOSE back stage encounters, but out of nowhere, in the middle of our conversation, he just planted one on me, like you would when you kiss a relative hello, and then continued talking about skin care--yes, we were talking facial products. My girlfriend just stared at me, waiting for me to flip out, but I did all that I could to keep my composure, as I didn't want to seem like a groupie.

I saw him a few other times several months after meeting him...I was working at Barney's in Chicago and every time he came in, he remembered me, and would give me a gigantic hug.

He's pretty much the coolest.

Last year, the hubs and I pinky swore that we were d-o-n-e, done watching American Idol. I didn't watch it for years, and then for the last 3 years, I get suckered into it.

Well, I am reneging on the pinky swearing.

Even if I have to fast forward through all the nonsense, I think having Mr.Tyler on the show will be fantastic. And that FACE!!

J-lo on the other hand??? Geesh.

At least there's a chance for some good fashion watching....I guess any thing's an improvement from Paula, and that Kara chick.

Will you be watching this year?

These are a few of my favorite things: part two.

2011-01-03T17:46:00.000-08:00

Most things that I fall in love with either come from word of mouth, a sample, or seeing it on someone else's blog.

These are a few more of my obsessions:

Yes, I have worked for NARS for over 10 years, but honestly-I still think it's the best. It is a true artist's line, yet anyone can use it. The pigments are amazing, the textures are super high-quality, and it won't break the bank. I L-O-V-E the "vibe" of the line as well--edgy, playful, and fashion forward.

The Multiple Sticks are amazing. So many lines try to replicate them without success. You truly can use them on your eyes, cheeks and lips-hence, the name.

There have been countless times where I do not have time to do my make-up, yet want to look presentable, so I just throw on some concealer, and a multiple, and I look alive.

Okay, I have been a makeup artist since 1995, and I NE-VER get excited about mascara. I think for the most part, they all suck. I do have challenging eyelashes. They don't go straight down, but I had to curl them EVERY day. Most mascara's weighed them down. I used to LIVE for Vincent Longo's mascara, but it was waterproof and totally dried my lashes out. My world was ROCKED the day I received a sample of Laura Mercier's new Full Blown Mascara. Personally, I think the name is horrendous, but after using it, I could care less. Not only did it hold my curl (from the trusty Shu Uemura curler), it did appear to thicken, and make my lashes look longer!! The next day I decided to give it a go WITHOUT curling them, and IT CURLED MY LASHES!!! I have NOT curled them since! Amazing! Plus, it's super black, which I love.

Another Laura product that I love: her tinted moisturizer. My love affair also began with a sample, and I haven't looked back. I think it gives great coverage for a tinted moisturizer, and leaves my skin glowy. The best part? SPF 20, and it does NOT contain oxybenzone, which is the devil.
This woman. There aren't enough words to express my LOVE for this woman. I have worked out pretty much my entire life, and at the age of 33, this woman changed my body. I have been doing her method for about 2 years now. I began after I had my son...continued during my 2nd pregnancy, (modified of course) and 4 weeks after I had my daughter, I started up again. She is the reason I am back in my skinny jeans. Tracy Anderson, I LOVE you. I hope you know that one day, I will be working for you.

How ADORABLE is this pic of her and her son Sam??

My name is Gina, and I am a tea junkie. Actually, I am a tea snob. I could talk tea all day long. My latest find is Tazo's new Rest tea. It contains lemon balm, valerian root, licorice root, and rose petals...it claims to relax you, and MAN, does it deliver. I drink a cup every night before bed, and it sends me into a woozy state. I am SUPER picky when it comes to teas containing rose petals, as some of them taste fake and perfume like, but Tazo does not.

My all TIME favorite Rose Tea, is Miller Harris The' Petals. I LOVE LOVE LOVE this tea. It isn't the cheapest around, but hey, if it makes you happy, it can't be that bad.

Sheyrl Crow is NOT one of my favorite things by the way.

Change is good.

2011-01-03T08:12:00.000-08:00

It's the new year folks. 2011. Crazy. Seems like yesterday everyone was freaking out about Y2K.

Last year, we partied it up..well, sort of. My bff's from Chicago came in, and we went to a huge party. I don't remember all that much, not because I drank myself into a coma, but 2 nights before the ball dropped, I found out Frankie was cooking in my oven. Huge shock, but the best shock ever.

This year we did things a bit different. Sweats. No makeup. Hair in a bun. Slippers on the feet.

Fabulous wine.

For dinner, we made our friend Alton's superb Shepherd's Pie. He isn't really our friend, but with his face all up close and personal in the camera on his cooking show, it seems as if we know him.

To be honest, I don't think I have ever had Shepherd's pie in my life....but this was the bee's knees. We added more worcestershire (thank you, spell check), and some dijon mustard. We also about tripled the Rosemary. All in all, it was a bit time consuming, but worth it.

While talking with the hubs last night, we were discussing what we were looking forward to in 2011. As much as I want to keep them the way they are forever, I look forward to my kiddos growing. Growing physically. Growing mentally. Growing into the people the Lord intended for them to be. My prayer is that He shows us how to assist them in doing so.

I also look forward to vacationing in St.Barts, and the entire Philip Lim Spring collection, but that's another story.

Merry CHRISTmas

2010-12-24T12:31:00.000-08:00

From my posse to yours.

May your days be merry and bright.

These are a few of my favorite things: part one

2010-12-22T09:01:00.000-08:00

Ms. Winfrey isn't the only one that has some favorite things. I do have to break it to you that all of my 12 readers will not be receiving the products that I am pimping out.

December in Kansas City has been pretty mild. There have even been several days in the mid 50's.

I am well aware that this is going to end quickly, and if our winter is anything like last year, get ready for some serious bitching and whining courtesy of yours truly.

Taking care of one's skin during the winter in the midwest is no joke. Here are some things that save me during Jan/Feb.

Stridex?? Yes, Stridex. However, this isn't for your zitty face. This, my sweets, is for your feets.

Dr. wizard of Oz says if you have dry, cracked feet, swipe 'em with a stridex pad before bed, and finish with a super moisturizing shea butter, and wake up to new toes. It works. Seriously-this tag team has saved my feet, no joke.

One of the best shea butters ev-ah.
I know she isn't cheap, but the Clarisonic brush is worth every penny. My face never gets flaky anymore, pores are clearer, and my moisturizer is more effective.
I fell in love with this product 10 years ago when I worked at Barney's. If you don't have good balance, you might break your head open in the shower, as all of the oils makes the floor crazy slippery---but hey, your skin will feel like buttah.

I apologize for posting yet another large ticket item, but this stuff truly is the bees knees. You don't have to use it every night..alternate it with something more affordable. Again, worth every stinking cent.

I really did save the best for last. And it won't empty your Goyard wallet (another of my favorite things, but that's another post). Aquaphor by Eucerin has transformed my lips. I mean it. My lips, for whatever reason, are dry all year....until I discovered this. I have tried everything...even the $45 La Mer lip balm that Mr. Micheal Kors is obsessed with, and it didn't do nearly as good of a job as my beloved Aquaphor. You can also use it on dry patches, cuticles, etc. My $7 tube that I bought in August isn't even close to being half way gone.

$avings $avings $avings.

Have any obsessions for your skin???

4

2010-12-22T07:24:00.000-08:00

Four months you are.

Already.

There are days that I want you to stay this little forever. The way your face lights up when I sing to you is something I wish would happen for the rest of my life. When I come in for a kiss and you open your mouth wide open..it's the most adorable thing ever.

Then there are days that I can't wait for you to get bigger....to see more of who you are... to see if your red hair is here to stay.....to witness the dynamic between you and your brother.

The past four months have been a blessing beyond belief.

I am grateful for what we have shared so far, and look forward to all that lies ahead.

I love love love you.

It's beginning to look a lot like.....

2010-12-18T19:05:00.000-08:00

I love to add a bit of Christmas spirit around the house, but I'm not a pine cone, mistletoe type of gal. I also don't like to go overboard with the decor, and I try to capture the vibe of our home: playful/edgy/not too serious.

Here's a bit of what we have going on:

I still can't believe Christmas is one week away. That's just crazy talk.

WARNING!!!!

2010-12-17T12:52:00.001-08:00

I would like to take a moment and warn the people in Kansas City that the Grinch has changed his image.

No longer does he resemble the Dr.Seuss character.

The Jim Carey Grinch no longer exists.

This grinch, the NEW grinch of 2010, is about 5"10, dark hair, and disguises himself as the owner of a "hip rock and roll barber shop".

Allow me to take you through my morning with this Mr. Grinch.

I had been to this establishment once before. This is where my son Addison had his first haircut.

See here. The gal who cut his hair was wonderful, patient, and made him look like a rock star.

Add was in major need of cut #2, so I decided to buck up, and take the kiddos by myself, knowing that it was going to be rough. I came up with a good system that would make things as easy as possible--I was going to put Frankie in the Bjorn so that I could still have my hands free to hold Addison down in the chair. Off we went with our plan, and mommy praying the whole way there that this wouldn't make me drive to the nearest bar right after.

We got there about 15 minutes early, which I patted myself on the back about. Better that being late, right? Not so much, as our gal was running behind. I pulled out all the tricks for Add, cell phone, keys, snacks, etc. Although he wasn't throwing any tantrums, he was definitely getting whiny, or "angry", as this idiot waiting for his metro sexual hair to be cut had said.

Finally, she was ready for us, and we went back to her chair....this is when the crying began. I got him to sit down, and 30 seconds later, the GRINCH OWNER comes over and says, "yeah, so here's the deal....." I knew where this was going, and I could NOT believe that this was how he was addressing me.

The GRINCH OWNER continues...." so, I have a customer in my chair who is getting a shave"....I just stared at him and waited for the rest of this riveting speech he was giving. "....and well, he is paying for it, and......" he looks at addison..." so, you know"......

I knew that in that moment, if I were to open my mouth, the cops were going to be called.

The blood rushed to my head in 2.5 seconds, and I had visions of taking that razor from his hands, and cutting HIS 1992 hairstyle.

I grabbed Addison, and headed to the front, shaking with r-a-g-e. I started putting his coat on, and I could NO LONGER be quiet. The next 30 seconds or so went like this as the sweet stylist who had nothing to do with this followed me to the front saying how sorry she was:

me (as loud as possible): does he have kids?

her: no

me: (even louder) he has NO idea....this is NOT how you run a business, kicking a mother OUT with her 2 kids when i had been here for 20 minutes already WAITING. WHY on earth does he advertise children's haircuts? i had no idea this was a SPA for men, give me a break!!

then I said something lame about having a nice Christmas, and slammed the door.

I then called a friend of mine who USED to go there, and he informed me that this grinch was once on the BACHELOR!! Yes, he is one of THOSE guys.

I was seriously wanting to drive to the florist in the area, and buy a dozen red roses, and throw them at him one by one.

I am now calm, collected, and didn't even have to drive to the bar....but if this Grinch ever finds a woman to put up with his ridiculousness, and he finds some way to convince her to have his child, I sure hope that when his kid turns two and cries because he or she doesn't want to do something that seems scary, well, I sure hope he remembers the mother of two that he kicked out of his lame men's spa.

1 out of 365 isn't bad.

2010-12-16T07:53:00.001-08:00

Maybe you've noticed-I haven't done a single outfit post this year-until now.

With being preggers 75% of the year, and then having a new born, you can imagine that there have been few spare moments to snap pics of my ensembles.

Sorry for the blah photos, but here is what I wore to the hubs holiday work party:

The pictures do NOT do this jacket justice. Vintage. Chevron. Sequins. This thing has a serious disco ball affect, which came in handy because the party was without one.

Think the earrings are House of Harlow? No-sir-ee. F-21 peeps.

Think the snake ring is vintage Cartier? YOU'RE RIGHT!!

Kidding, it's from a fabulous boutique here in the KC, Standard.

Think my hair is d-i-r-t-y?

A lady never tells.

Terrific Two.

2010-12-13T07:40:00.000-08:00

Dear Addison,

Two years ago the Lord brought you to us, and we've been celebrating ever since.

This might sound like a cheesy Hallmark card, but every day is special with you. Every morning feels like Christmas when I go into your room to get you and start the day.

I recently read that it is important as a parent to show enthusiasm when your child walks into a room--it's supposed to make them feel special-loved.

I don't know how NOT to do that. You bring me so much joy, and spending time with you is the best ever.

When your dad and I were trying to plan something for your second birthday we said, "well, what would make Add happy?". Elevators. And Trains. And Frozen Yogurt.

So that's how we spent your special day, and you had the best time.

Happy 2nd birthday my sweet son. I love you with all that I am.

Bananas for Butternut Squash.

2010-12-07T20:14:00.000-08:00

I have been out of control lately with the butternut squash recipes. I just cannot get enough of the king of all squashes.

First it was this recipe, Smitten Kitchen's Butternut Squash, Lentil Goat cheese concoction. Loved it. So did the toddler. Add pumpkin seeds. Yum. don't like cheese from goats? you're dumb. swap for feta.

*note* I did NOT use smoked paprika. Used hungarian=not spicy.

THIS I made tonight, and I am STILL salivating over it. That Ina sure knows what she is doing. Which is probably why she drives an insane Audi, lives in the Hamptons, has an herb garden the size of my bedroom, and doesn't have a problem spending $5 per heirloom tomato.

*note* used peppered turkey bacon instead of pancetta. No porky pig eatin' for me.

And then there is the mother of all squash recipes: Giada's Butternut squash lasagna. This will blow your mind. *note* I add ground turkey sausage, swap the basil out and use sage, and about triple the amaretti cookies. This is quite a crowd pleaser.

We have re-named the dish, big boobed lasagna.

As if you didn't know why.

Now, go get your squash on.

I don't think you're ready for this jelly.

2010-12-03T19:25:00.000-08:00

I mean, how delicious are you???

Your rolls are out of control, and I am obsessed with each and every one of them.

The 3+ hours that I get to snuggle with you on the couch while your brother is napping is my favorite.

All of the sweet sounds you make while trying to talk, make my heart skip a beat.

You are madly in love with your father, and to be honest, I can't blame you.

These last 3 months has changed me even more, and words cannot express my thankfulness.

I love you little Frankie.

Ring a Ding Ding

2010-11-30T05:57:00.000-08:00

While doing some fantasy shopping on Net-A-Porter, I came across several rings that I would like to be the proud owner of.

Take a look-see for yourself:

If I had this tiger ring around my finger, it would always remind me to think of tigers.

JOHN HARDY
Sterling silver tiger ring
$395

I love me some birds. Except when they are in my attic.

RIT DESIGN
Oxidized sterling silver diamond bird ring
$2,845
This starfish sort of reminds me of flipping the bird.

KENNETH JAY LANE
22-karat gold-plated starfish ring
$180
Such a classy little skull.

DAISY KNIGHTS
22-karat gold-vermeil skull ring
$140
Perfect to go with the classy little skull.

DAISY KNIGHTS
22-karat gold-vermeil studded ring
$230
I have no words for this.

AURÉLIE BIDERMANN
Blackened silver-dipped lace ring
$460
I would like 2 of these please.

BOTTEGA VENETA
Oxidized sterling silver intrecciato coil ring
$400
This really takes the cake for me, and it's the most affordable in the bunch. Hint, hint, santa baby.

MARC BY MARC JACOBS
Marquee brass and glass pavé ring
$88

This is the season for giving, right??

Out of the closet.

2010-11-29T09:05:00.001-08:00

This is Jeana. There are many reasons why I stalk her. She has great style. She takes amazing photos. She lives in L.A. We share the same name. She loves food. How do I know so much about her without ever having met her? Her fabulous blog, of course.

A reason to wake up on Mondays? Her closet visits. Because Jeana is the coolest ever, she knows cool people, gets invited into their closets, and we get a peek.

Here are some of my favorites from her visits:

There are no words to describe my love for this poncho.
If I was still living in L.A., I would stalk her big time.
Hair envy? Yes mam.
Shoe envy? you betcha.

Stop it!!!! I see a DIY in my future.
Take my breath away perfect tunic.
This is exactly how I look every day.

You can bet your life savings on the fact that she would get stalked.

And that her ring would mysteriously disappear.

Yes, I will join you on your patio for some Rose'.

And this beauty, is my sweet, sweet friend Jessie. Jessie also had mad style, and gets to use her talents here in Kansas City as a stylist. She will literally come to your closet, and throw out the crap you've been hoarding, and help you find what you need to fill in the gaps. If you already have fabulous fashion sense, you might find her snapping your photo for her street style blog.

Recently, Jessie came over to play in my closet and she featured or afternoon of fun on her blog. Stalk away!!

Black and Blue

2010-11-21T11:28:00.000-08:00

Sarah Jessica + Vivienne Westwood + Nicholas Kirkwood= PERFECTION!!!

Be still my heart.

No Whammies!!

2010-11-19T14:37:00.001-08:00

Wanna hit the jackpot and win a gift card to CSN? I know I sure do.

Hop on over to my home girl's blog, merci blah blah, and press your luck.

Being a creep pays off.

2010-11-18T14:59:00.000-08:00

So about a year or so ago, I was working a make-up gig, and one of our clients had the most insane earrings on. I immediately put my brushes down, left my client (so professional), and had to know where these beauties came from. The sweet gal told me that a friend of hers made them, and lives in Lawrence, Ks. Well, of course my pregnant brain could NOT for the life of me remember her name. After much stalking on line, a friend of mine was able to find her, and my life has never been the same. Yes, I am way over dramatic here, but I am in LOVE with her work, and I am sure you will be too.

The creative genius behind all of this gorgeousness, is Rachel Dempsey. Rachel is originally from Kansas City, and has been living in Lawrence (one of my FAVE places ever) for the last 8 years.

I recently stalked, er, contacted Rachel to know a bit more about herself. She has a serious passion for collecting and creating jewelry, and is inspired by Native American work as well as classic vintage jewelry.

All of her bead weaving is done by hand, and each piece is an original design. How cool is that?

She has recently incorporated gemstones as well as crystals into her bead weaving.

If you live in Kansas City you are one lucky duck, because her creations will be at the Bizarre Bazaar at the Lawrence art center on November 27th, and at the LOLA Giant show at Van Go December 11th and 12th.

Rachel's website is almost up and running, but for now, you too can be a stalker on her facebook page.

This advertisement has been brought to you by Stalkers are us.

Odylyne.

2010-11-18T07:46:00.000-08:00

For the past 2 days, I worked on a photo shoot for a local high end fashion magazine with some uber talented people. It was incredible, and I cannot wait to see the end result.

That issue doesn't launch until January, so I won't be posting any photos until then. What I can say, is one of the looks was 70s inspired, and we all know how I feel about that era.

I about stopped breathing when one of the models came out in one of the most stunning dresses ev-ah.

The dress is by Odylyne, and after seeing the look book on set, I knew I had to check out more of the collection. I wasn't able to find much on line, but keep your eyes peeled, because this is one to watch for sure.

The photos above do not do the line much justice, so do yourself a favor, and find a boutique that carries the line so you can see it in person.

And if the designers happen to stumble across this free bit of advertising, I would be happy to give you my address so that you can send me some pieces as a thank you.

Two heads are better than one.

2010-11-13T19:03:00.001-08:00

During the day, my little miss isn't in love with me putting her down. Not even if mamma has to pee. This doesn't bother me all that much for several reasons. One, she sleeps a good 8 hour stretch at night thank you Jesus. Two, there is the God created apparatus called a baby Bjorn. Three, she's super duper cute.

While I am ever so grateful for this over the shoulder baby holder, you can only get so much done, especially if you're short, as I am. I try to prep a bit for dinner, but I can't see what I'm trying to slice or dice, and that, is dangerous.

So either the little lady is napping on me while I catch up on any and every reality show on the DVR, or, we have fun with photo booth.

I am really enjoying our mommy daughter time while her big brother is napping, and am grateful for all of the sleep smiles that I get to catch from her sweet little face.

Having every limb fall asleep, and being afraid to move while on the couch is another thing.

Oui Oui, Anna Sui.

2010-11-11T20:42:00.000-08:00

Anna Sui. There really isn't another designer like her out there if you ask me. Her hippie-boho-rock vibe is way up my alley. She is truly unique, and though I don't love every piece she creates, her esthetic as a whole, is super attractive.

Before being able to buy any of her designs, I wore her fragrance in my early 20's religiously. That purple and black bottle? I was obsessed. Fast forward a decade or so later, and I was marrying my husband in one of her gowns.

She recently launched a super chic coffee table book that I would love to own, but what I would really love to get my hands on, is her New York apartment.

I love how most of her designs are an homage to the 70s, which is my most fav-or-ite time for fashion. That free spirited-ness combined with a rocker edge is always what I'm the most drawn to, and nobody does it better than Anna.

Have any of you purchased her book?

mmm mmm...good.

2010-11-02T15:17:00.001-07:00

It's been a while since I posted a new recipe. Since our little lady came around, we've been sticking to the basics around here: Turkey tacos, mustard salmon, soups, Tilapia, chicken, etc.

The hubs and I don't eat a ton of red meat...maybe once every couple of months or so, but for some strange reason I was craving beef and broccoli (no, I am not preggers again--geesh).

Ordering chinese food is an absolute no no in my book.

We have the WORST track record with getting our order cooked with MSG even when they say they don't use it. How can I tell? Instant pounding headache.

So, I did some recipe hunting around the web and found Emerill's b&b recipe.

I modified it a bit after reading multiple reviews:

Doubled the sauce recipe

I marinated the meat (I used flank steak) in soy (soy vey-the bomb soy sauce), garlic and lime juice in the fridge for a couple of hours.

I did not blanch the broccoli as I thought it would get too mushy-I added it add the end=perfect

Used rice vinegar instead of that fancy black stuff.

Regular honey--again, no fancy pants here.

I also toasted some sesame seeds and sprinkled them on top.

I served this with steamed brown rice--you could also use noodles.

This was so yummy in the tummy.

Next time, I'm going to try adding snap peas and water chestnuts.

But then I'll have to change the name.

Photo booth fun for hours.

2010-10-30T18:34:00.000-07:00

Sorry about my leopard bra.

The gift that keeps on giving.

2010-10-22T16:28:00.001-07:00

Happy 2 month birthday my sweet angel.

We spent the day cuddling, singing, and you gave lots and lots of smiles.

I don't know what I'm obsessed with more--your arms that look like they have rubber bands all over them, or those precious little feet of yours.

You're starting to make the cutest little sounds, and you love to hold my finger.

I am now really starting to realize that I have a little GIRL!! Oh, the fun that we will have.

Thank you for going easy on me for the first two months. I promise to buy you lots of shoes in return.

I love you.

This is how we do it....

2010-10-19T11:04:00.000-07:00

No, I'm not referring to the Montell Jordan jam (it really is a jam, isn't it??).

This is what our typical morning is like when we decide to stay in the house.

What wasn't documented, was the winning oscar performance for best tantrum given to the Add man after I stopped letting him press the button to take these shots.

THE DUDE IS OBSESSED WITH PRESSING BUTTONS.

All in all it was a good morning.

No bloody Mary's involved.

Considering....

2010-10-19T08:26:00.000-07:00

Selling my archive of vintage to buy the entire All Saints collection for my kids.

It is insane!!

The good news is that they do ship to the US of A...the bad news....it's not bargain stuff.

Rapunzel

2010-10-10T19:43:00.000-07:00

It was time.

It wasn't because in the last week, he was mistaken for a she a half a dozen times.

It wasn't because we wanted a change.

It was because the humidity here in KC is gone, and his curls weren't springing up anymore, and he was walking into walls because he couldn't see.

I prepared myself. I made a silent promise that I wasn't going to be that mother.....the one that goes into the barber shop and reads the stylist the riot act about how much to take off, and make sure you don't lose his curls, and he's not that fond of water on his face, so please be careful.

Thank GOD the second we sat down, she pretty much told me that she didn't want to take too much off, and that she hasn't cut her own son's curly hair yet.

The little dude did pretty well. Yes, there were tears, but he didn't try to get off of the chair (something I swore he was going to do the entire haircut).

The most hysterical part of it all, was when the owner came over to talk to Addison. This guy has longer rock star-ish curly hair, and as soon as Addison saw him, he calmed down. It was as if he knew that he was in good hands.

And then we got him his first tattoo.

I Just can't get enough...

2010-09-25T07:43:00.000-07:00

I've never been a huge Drew fan, but as I've said on an earlier post, she has never looked better.

This spread in the October Bazaar, is off the chain!! Everything about it gives me goosebumps: her hair, makeup, the lighting, the location, and I can't even speak about the clothes. Gaultier, Dior, Givenchy????

It's seriously perfection in my book.

She's come a LONG way.

A non-baby related post.

2010-09-21T18:55:00.001-07:00

Okay. If you know me at all, it's no secret that I have a thing for tattoos on a dude. The more the better in my opinion. Oddly enough, I married a man who is absent of any ink--go figure.

I don't know what it is, but I have been this way since I discovered head banger's ball late Friday nights in the 80's.

Take a heavily tattooed Italian guy, and a passion for home design, and I am in heaven.

Needless to say, I am smitten with Mr. Ballatore. I didn't watch him win HGTV's design series (because personally I think that show belongs in the toilet), but I am obsessed with his show, The Antonio Treatment.

I have really been missing Los Angeles lately, and this show isn't helping. I have been coming up with ways to take a toddler and a newborn for a visit so that I can stalk Antonio, and beg him for a job.

I would be more than willing to tattoo sleeves on my arms to be part of his crew.

31 days.

2010-09-20T18:55:00.000-07:00

Today, my sweet girl, you are one month old.

It's hard t believe that 4 weeks has gone by already. How did we live without you before? Even your big brother is starting to become a big fan of yours.

Thank you for going so easy on your dad and I----we haven't done this 2 kid thing before.

There is so much that I am looking forward to --all of the fun girly things that we get to do together. But right now, I'm just enjoying where you're at. Today. A one month old bundle of cuteness.

Even when you poop on me.

Miracles do happen.

2010-09-20T11:41:00.000-07:00

When we first brought our little lady home from the hospital, our son was not having any of it.

He screeched every time he saw her. The whining went on for days and days, and I was convinced that this was just the way it was going to be.

Fast forward a couple of weeks, and he has really warmed up to her. If she cries, he runs over to see if she's okay, and he LOVES holding her in his lap. Sometimes he thinks her head is a drum, but most of the time he's super gentle with her. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that we started dressing her in his old clothes because NOTHING fits her, she's so tiny.

Or maybe, just maybe, he loves having a sister.

Already??!!

2010-09-14T19:33:00.000-07:00

I can't believe your birthday is here.

Today.

Wow.

I guess having our little girl 3 weeks ago really makes time fly even faster than normal.

I am so excited to spend the day with you--I love you even more this birthday than I did last year.

That's a whole lotta love.

If I had a dime.....

2010-09-05T13:06:00.000-07:00

The phrase, "One day at a time" has been said by many, and I am quite certain that I have used it on several occasions myself.

Recently, a very dear friend of mine sent me an encouraging email with those very words at the end, and they really struck a chord.

You see, I am a planner. I like structure. I don't enjoy a dirty dish sitting in the sink, and I love a crossed of to-do list.

Having 2 babies under the age of 2 is not the easiest thing that I have ever done, I assure you. I am really working hard on not obsessing over the little things, and just enjoying this time, because I know that it will be gone in the blink of an eye. Most moments I am able to "keep it together", and shake off the challenging situations that come up. I think the hardest thing is when they are both crying at the same time. My son tries to out-cry his sister, and 9 times out of 10, this is all happening in the car for Pete's sake.

Before, when I just had Add, it was so easy to get out of the house, plan our day, work around his nap schedule to get stuff done, etc. Now, every moment is different. Sure, we get out and do stuff, but it's all been with the help of my husband (who is beyond amazing by the way).

I worry, "How will I do this alone?".

Then the words of my dear friend Bridgett come to mind, "One day at a time".

So, that's my mantra from now on. Though some days it might have to change to "one hour at a time".

I've made a new friend.

2010-09-02T19:06:00.000-07:00

How cute is she?

Meet Natalie, a new blog friend of mine that I "met" through my friend Mel. She is a fellow stay at home mamma to an adorable boy named Sterling (how rockin' is that name?). She shares a passion for shopping, cooking, and home decor, and I just love reading what she has to say (especially her recipes!).

Recently Natalie tagged me in a fun questionnaire, so here I go!

1)What is your signature color?

It depends. If we're talking home decor, I would have to say gray. Most of my walls are some sort of gray, which is why my husband's eyes almost popped out of his head when I recently picked a shade of brown for our bedroom.

If we're talking make-up, I LOVE me a good red lip. Some of my faves are Red Square, Dragon Girl, Jungle Red,

and Blood Work, all by NARS.

2)What is your most embarrassing moment?

Oh, this is hard to narrow down, as I have had a few. The first that comes to mind is several years ago I was on a first date. We were at a benefit concert for Hurricane Katrina, and we had back stage passes. I was walking down a long flight of LOUD METAL stairs in high heels and super wide legged jeans that were cuffed. My heel caught on the cuff and I stumbled all the way down the stairs, and slammed into Dave Grohl from the Foo Fighters.

Classy.

3)Would you get anything pierced other than your ears? If so what?

Too late--when I was 18, I was driving by myself and decided I wanted to get my belly button pierced. So I did.

I took it out when I was 23, and still have a funny mark where it used to be.

Again, classy.

4)Are you a social butterfly or homebody?

Both. I used to get out more, but since being married and becoming a mom, one of my favorite things to do, is have friends over for dinner. My husband and I love to cook, and this way we don't have to worry about getting a babysitter! Every once in a while it's nice to get out though.

5)Are you done having babies or do you want more?

Well, I just gave birth to my darling daughter 2 weeks ago, and our family feels complete. Though I think her brother wants to send her back.

6)Are you loyal to your hairstylist or do you try every new salon in town?

This question is going to put me over the edge!! My best friend Amber has been doing my hair pretty much since I've lived in Kansas City. She has become like a sister to me, and her salon was seriously the coolest ever. She just moved back to Austin, which is KILLING me, I miss her so much!! Needless to say, I'm either going to be going to Austin every couple of months, or my roots are going to suffer.

7)How many times have you moved in your life?

Seven. Some were in Chicago, Los Angeles, and here in Kansas City.

And I don't feel "done" moving. I'm not a gypsy per say, but I am open to the idea of re-locating.

8)If you could take a vacation for just you and your love where would it be?

Right now, given the fact that we are sleep deprived with a toddler and a new born to take care of, I would say somewhere beach-y and quiet, which normally isn't our thing. We love big cities, and sight seeing--but right now rest and waves would be perfect.

Thanks Natalie for tagging me!

You can check out her blog here.

Who dunnit?

2010-08-29T12:55:00.000-07:00

I have no idea who is styling Ms. Barrymore these days, but she has never. looked. better.

We now return to our regularly scheduled program of diapers and spit up.

She completes me.

2010-08-27T13:23:00.000-07:00

Our darling Frankie Sophia was born on 8/20/2010 at 9:32 a.m.

The mister and I couldn't feel more blessed having her in our family. When I heard her first cry, it was as if time stood still, and the waves of emotion were so strong, I couldn't keep it together. Then I heard the anesthesiologist say, "she's perfect", and I lost it. I made her repeat what she just said, "she's perfect", she said again, and in that moment, so was the world.

We had a bit of a scare during the pregnancy-testing positive for down's with that AFP test.

After a few more tests, we were told that everything looked normal, and that the "false positive rate" of the test was very high. However, as a parent, that still sticks with you throughout the pregnancy no matter how strong your faith is.

Truth be told, if there were anything "wrong" with Frankie, that wouldn't have made a difference to Jared and I, but hearing "she's perfect" changed me that day in a way that I'm still not able to put into words.

Our family of 4 is doing well. Her big brother isn't a huge fan of her yet, getting used to a lack of sleep has been tough (although it's NOTHING like the first time-at least I'm sleeping some!), and recovering from a c-section isn't a walk in the park, however, I really wouldn't trade any of this. These are the moments you can easily forget several months down the road, and I am doing my best to savor them all.

As I sit here and write, my son is sleeping soundly in his crib. My husband is sleeping soundly with Frankie wrapped in his arms, and I am weeping. Weeping because I have been given so much, and I am so incredibly thankful to God for His blessings, for His promises, His faithfulness.

I will do all that I can to take great care of His gifts.

New baby=Famine?

2010-08-17T15:50:00.000-07:00

I have no control over this nesting thing anymore. I give up. I have been cooking gigantic meals to freeze, because I think I will never go to the grocery store again. Lasagna, Enchiladas, Spinach Pie, Soup, Corn Bread. I need to stop.

I went to Costco the other day and considered buying things that I would never even think of eating. Giant box of cream puffs? We might need those. Huge platters of cheese? What if guests come over? Maybe an industrial sized case of pop, even though the mister and I don't drink the stuff.

I presume this little girl living inside of me is going to be quite smart, as she has sucked every last brain cell from my head.

It's been really hard to "take it easy" this week even with braxton hicks contractions that bring tears to my eyes. I am so excited to meet this little person, yet can't stop obsessing over having enough toilet paper, paper towels, swiffers, etc.

I am hoping that I mellow out just a wee bit....geting my roots touched up, and a Rachel Zoe episode should do just that.

My girl.

2010-08-13T11:55:00.000-07:00

This girl.

There is so much to be said about this girl.

She is my bestie. My soul sistah. My family.

We met about 13 years ago, and my life changed.. I know that sounds dramatic, but it's true.

The things that we have been through together could fill a novel, and be a film that could win awards.

She is everything anyone could ask for in a friend, and more. If she loves you, she LOVES you. When she listens, she LISTENS. She is creative, and smart, funny, and brave. I admire how strong she is, and she has even given me some of that strength.

So today, on your birthday my dear Em, know that you are loved. Know that you are cherished, know that you are one of a kind. Know that if this gets any sappier our movie will not win awards and only be showed on Lifetime starring Merideth Baxter Birney.

Seriously--I love you, and am so proud of you.

Happy Birthday.

It's not too hot for hotcakes.

2010-08-11T11:03:00.001-07:00

It's INSANE here in the KC. Temperatures that are not even worth mentioning because I will start to sweat.

So, let's turn on the stove, shall we?

I bookmarked this recipe in House Beautiful Months ago, and decided to give them a try this afternoon. They are a Curtis Stone recipe, and he never disappoints. Thank God the mister has been working from home this week, or big mamma would have tipped the scales at her check-up this afternoon. They are that good. The ricotta makes all the difference.

Super easy to make, and I am sure they would work with many variations. Except maybe ground beef.

Total side note, but did any of you ever watch The take home chef? I miss that show. I love how he was able to scout out the women who only drove cars over 50 grand and had kitchens that were equipped with viking stoves.

Too cool for school.

2010-08-06T19:15:00.000-07:00

I'm so stoked to have this little girl join our family-in two weeks!!

I have been told that dressing a girl is so much fun, and I would be a big fat Italian liar if I said I wasn't excited about that. I just cleaned out my closet and packed away a huge box of vintage to give to her someday.

I will have to say that dressing my little dude has been a blast. There are much better options for boys now than there were even a few years back......these 2 young chaps take cool street style to a whole new level.

I would love to sit down and share a juice box with them.

Don't say I didn't warn you.

2010-08-05T07:23:00.000-07:00

As I mentioned in my last post, I am currently living on planet insane. Yesterday was a CRAZY day. We had our painter here working, and there are beds in hallways, clothes everywhere-madness. I spent the morning doing makeup for a photo shoot, and then I had to race to a doctors appointment that involved waiting for an hour and forty five minutes (this was a short wait by the way). Needless to say, this pregnant woman was exhausted.

So, instead of using my brain and just picking up something for dinner, I decided to make Martha's Summer Corn Chowder. In 100 degree weather, this woman wants to make soup.

That's not all--I also made Ina's Jalapeno Cheddar Cornbread.

Was it worth it? Yes.

No tweaks made with the bread...with the soup, I used turkey bacon and dried thyme.

Try it-you'll like it.

I'm going off the rails on a crazy train.

2010-08-03T13:03:00.001-07:00

So, remember when I said we were having some work done around the house? That consisted of Painting our screened in porch (ceiling and fireplace included), 5 pieces of furniture, and the little dude's new room (tons of trim involved here).

Well, because we are completely from the planet insane, we decided that even though bebe number 2 will be here in about 2 weeks, let's do phase two.

Yep.

THIS consists of wallpapering the little dude's room (one wall-done by amazing husband), and having our AMAZING painter come in and paint the following:

Master bedroom (which required clearing EVERYTHING out, and having the mister spackle some areas, and wipe everything down)

Vintage desk

Vintage Table

Vintage chair

2 Chandeliers.

We are out of our minds, yes, and I can NOT wait for this to be O-V-E-R.

Here's a sneak peak of Mr. Big boy's room:

If this little lady decides to come any earlier, I am in trouble.

Needless to say, blogging will be a bit on the back burner.

Revival

2010-07-26T06:46:00.000-07:00

I love me a high end department store. Rarely will I make a purchase at one, but they do serve as a source of inspiration for me.

Don't even get me started if one of these stores has a home department. Here, in Kansas City, we have Halls (don't expect much from the website, people).

The home department here is incredible. even my own mother who flies in from Chicago thinks it's pretty amazing.

We decided to peruse the department this weekend, and it did not disappoint. I found this amazing table that displayed the most gorgeous pieces I have seen in a long time. I had to know more about this collection. Maria, who is one of the nicest, and most knowledgable employees there began telling me the story of the artisit as I drooled, and added up the cost of the 3 pieces I was going bananas over (it totaled over $2000).

His name is Waylande Gregory, and was born IN Kansas of all places in 1905. Maria informed me that the pieces I was swooning over were replicas ones he began creating in the 1920's.

During his career, he was considered the best paid sculptor, and was in 172 major national museums, and had exhibits in over 11 countries. As soon as I got in the car, I couldn't google Mr. Gregory fast enough.

There's a lot to be said about this artist, but the condensed version is that his great great nephew, Bryan Downeys, a fashion entrepeneur is the one responsible for the "awakening" of this brilliant artist.

Here are some of the pieces I would LOVE to be the proud owner of:

I think it's a good time to start a collection of breakable art when I will have 2 kids running around, don't you agree?

Double the hormones.

2010-07-25T19:11:00.000-07:00

It's such a blessing to have this gal in my life. She is one of those rare birds-the kind that you can be yourself around. The kind that really listens when you need her to, is there for you no matter what, whose heart is bigger than you can imagine, the kind that makes you laugh from your gut. Her and her amazing husband are our dearest friends, and we love love love them to pieces. My son is quite smitten with her as well. It's no surprise that being pregnant at the same time is something so exciting and special for us. AND we are both having girls! So fun! My husband and I wanted to give them a shower, and show them just how much they are loved. Jared and I had such a great time planning this, and are so happy with how it all turned out.

We are soooo excited for their baby girl to arrive, and to be able to watch her grow and discover how amazing her parents are. What a blessed little girl she already is.

amber on the left. me on the right. people say we look like sisters. i have to agree.
invitation-made by my insanely talented husband.
handmade fabric flowers made by my insanely talented mother for my baby shower. she made hundreds of them, and i love how i was able to display them on amber's special day.
the daddy to be getting a little hands on experience.
my little dude thinking santa came for him.
see? my gold 6 ft. tall bird cage DOES serve a purpose.
toasted coconut short breads for the favors.
decor done by by insanely talented husband.

double chocolate sea salt brownies. a pregnant woman's crack.
raspberry filled short breads.
rosemary strawberry scones. yes, the talented husband was involved here too.
coconut cupcakes. toppers made by you know who.

There's something in the water.

2010-07-21T20:46:00.000-07:00

I am not the only preggers gal in town. I have 7 friends who are pregnant right now, and 4 of my friends have had babies in the last month and a half. CRAZY!

My dear, dear friend Melanie just threw the most adorable sprinkle for me this past weekend.

She is such a talented, creative person, and did such an amazing job! Here are a few photos, but you have to check out the rest at her blog:

I am so grateful for her, and her friendship.

Now, it's my turn to throw a party! My sweet friend Amber who is more like a sister to me, is pregnant,and I am so so so excited! I am throwing a shower for her this weekend, and am really trying hard not to get carried away! I am staying on a budget, and not trying to over-do things like usual. While doing some research on the web, I came across some really great baby shower photos for inspiration:

I'm not really doing a "theme", but trying to incorporate her invitation colors which are chartreuse, grey, white and black.

Photos to come!

"I have nothing to wear"

2010-07-18T08:31:00.000-07:00

I don't know HOW many times I have uttered those words, when, to be honest, I had plenty to wear.

When pregnant with my son, I was able to wear cute dresses, be indoors, and not have to deal with disgusting summer humidity. This time around has been a completely different story.

Chasing after a toddler does not allow you to wear a dress. The one day that I took a chance and did, was the day I had to rescue my child from the slides at the park. It was windy and I had to climb to the top of the jungle gym- it was NOT a cute Marilyn Monroe moment, I assure you.

I have been rotating the same flowy tanks and leggings for months, and I am ready to light them all on fire.

This chick, Miroslava Duma, makes me want to scream!! How fricking cute is she with her bun in the oven? Yes, she works in the fashion industry, and actually has places to go that justify being dressed this way. I can only imagine how hysterical it would be if I tried to replicate one of her outfits, and took my boy to story time. In Kansas City.

In the meantime, I will just keep rotating what I have, and dream of cool weather and anything without an elastic waistband.

All of it.

2010-07-17T20:52:00.000-07:00

I am totally in love with everything about this look.

Her gorgeous Michelle Pfeiffer circa Scarface haircut, fabulous lipcolor, and the 70s vibe dress and necklace.

Stunning.

I'll have what she's having.

2010-07-16T08:05:00.000-07:00

I remember the days of going to a bookstore and flipping through magazines for hours.

Now, I chase my "mall walker" of a son all over, and check out the magazine covers while zipping past.

One that really caught my eye yesterday was Kyra Sedgwick on the cover of More. She looks ah-mazing. I know Demi Moore has been crowned the queen of looking good in your 40's, and she does look great-but I think Kyra deserves to share that throne.

Trials.

2010-07-14T10:22:00.000-07:00

Most of you know, that aside from a few posts regarding my husband and my son, that this blog is mainly about "frivolous" things.

Don't get me wrong, fashion, cooking, and home decor are fun, creative outlets that, if not obsessing over them, are harmless.

I find that there are times when it is difficult for me to keep things in perspective. Why do I sometimes spend more time scouring the Internet for vintage chandeliers than I do in my bible?

Why do I ponder what I am going to wear to dinner on Friday more than I do asking God what I am supposed to be doing for Him?

Yes, these deep thoughts are stemming from somewhere.

Twice in the last week I have read gut wrenching stories via the blog world.

First, Megan's story, which had me sobbing for hours.

Next, Marija's story, that hit me at my core.

My heart aches for these families, and I hope that as time goes by, I will still remember to pray for them often.

I can say that daily, I am filled with gratitude for what God has done in my life.

However, I want to be better at being grateful.

Some things that I am so grateful for:

Jesus

Family

My amazing friends

Power (after 30 plus hours of not having it this week, I am beyond grateful)

The Lord's provision

Freedom

Don't worry. I'll be back to my regular posts about Birkin's, Nicole Richie, and my love affair with Smitten Kitchen--but sometimes it's good to get a bit serious every now and then.

There's a party in my tummy.

2010-07-09T11:05:00.000-07:00

Donna Hay never lets me down.

One of my all time favorite cookbooks is from her called "The Instant Cook".

What I lurve about this book, is that just about every recipe has a photo, and she gives you different versions of certain dishes.

Her tiramisu is off the charts-and SO easy:

1 3/4 c cream

1 lb mascarpone (insert giada's annoying accent)

1 c coffee liquer (this preggers girl is living on the edge)

2c espresso

26 lady fingers (NOT an easy thing to find in the KC)

cocoa powder for dusting

Do It:

Beat heavy cream in bowl with mixer until soft peaks form. (**I added a couple tbsp powdered sugar-needed a little sweetness**).

Fold in mascarpone. Set aside.

Combine liquer and coffww.

Quickly dip both sides of half the biscuits in the coffee mixture & use them to layer the base of a 4 pint serving dish.

Spoon half of the cream mixture over the layer of biscuits.

Repeat with remaining biscuits and cream.

Dust with cocoa powder.

Refrigerate at least one hour.

I also made this version:

replace the coffee and liquer with 1 cup dessert wine (I used Muscato).

Layer 20 oz defrosted frozen raspberries over biscuit and cream mixture.

Yum-o.

August Fest.

2010-07-08T11:25:00.000-07:00

There is so much going on in August.

Squeezing in as many afternoons at the pool as possible.

FIVE of my closest friend's birthdays.

My parent's anniversary.

My in-law's anniversary.

Oh, and I'm having a baby.

And....drumroll.......she's back.

August 3rd.

I heart her big time..